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We all lie on our day today life either to cover-up our mistakes or to project ourselves better. But what if it get caught..? You may loose your individuality, your trust and more over your credibility and confidence. Here we will consider five important things that you should keep in mind to become an expert liar who can never be caught..
1) Always remember your Lies.
Forgetting our lies, is one of the common mistake we all make. Once you forget your lies, you won't know what to hide and what to disclose, nor you can improvise it for convincing others. Its ok not to remember every truth you spoke because truths can never haunt you back, but lies can..So never forget your lies
2) Have some Factual Keystones.
When you are saying something, there will be always a chance among your listeners to take your words for granted. But if your lies have a base of facts, it could be easier for you to convince others. For example, if you say you have watched someone somewhere, it seems more realistic if you could come up with a fact that you had already visited that "somewhere". If you don't have such facts, create it intentionally to support your lies. Nobody can deny you have seen Taj mahal if you could establish that you were in Agra days ago.
3) Connect your lies with other lies to make it more stable.
This is pretty risky but it can be tried. You can club lots of facts and lies together so that your lies will be very strong. But when you relate one with the other, and clubbing it together , you have to handle it very carefully without any self-contradictions.
4)Be confident and emotionally involved.
Confidence is the fundamental quality that makes you a good liar. And you have to be emotionally connected to each and every word you are saying. If you can connect to your listener with an emotional thread, its easy for you to make them beleive whatever you are saying.
5) Always have an exit door.
When you are lying something, it would be always a question of trust, your morality, individuality and ethics. So, you have to tell a lie with an predestined escape plan if you get caught. In some cases , you can fulfil or achieve the content of your lie after sometime based on your convenience so that you can make your lie a truth. In that case, the only issue will be your timing. If your are morally obliged to a person to whom you may have to lie for instance, better tell your lie as a joke so that the listener may be confused or less serious. This laxity of your lie can become your flexibility to manipulate the same if needed.
Note: There is no doubt to say that lying is ofcourse a bad habit. But in a situation where you are in an ethical dilemma ,like a hamster in wheel, if the only thing that can empower you to get the situation better is to tell a lie, you can definitely opt this way..
